tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299329.post110199031596360776..comments2023-10-12T10:24:26.873-05:00Comments on FFS: Ghosts of Boyfriends Past Part IVAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12286533198577921173noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299329.post-1102187727221208302004-12-04T13:15:00.000-06:002004-12-04T13:15:00.000-06:00Like Annie, I'm going to miss this series. It rea...Like Annie, I'm going to miss this series. It really makes you think...<br /><br />I married someone 16 years older who seemed like he was my age at the time. Then he was attacked by a loony person, left with permanent back injuries, and now he seems to be my father's age! I think that age is less of a factor than mindset. Of course, I never dated anyone more than a year younger than me....Pink Poppyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07942742431086816657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299329.post-1102063425399372882004-12-03T02:43:00.000-06:002004-12-03T02:43:00.000-06:00It's amazing how some guys treat you like shit, an...It's amazing how some guys treat you like shit, and think it's their right, so they actually get *surprised* when you throw them out.<br /><br />Thank you for this series. It's been very interesting.<br /><br />Maria<br />http://www.livejournal.com/users/kiwiriaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299329.post-1102061361113791932004-12-03T02:09:00.000-06:002004-12-03T02:09:00.000-06:00so glad i found your site again.... thankyou for o...so glad i found your site again.... thankyou for once be.Lou Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12020187476964937681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299329.post-1102025097263801902004-12-02T16:04:00.000-06:002004-12-02T16:04:00.000-06:00After being in a domestic violence relationship fo...After being in a domestic violence relationship for almost 9 years it actually took him finally hitting me in the face for me to leave. Things started out verbally and over the course of 9 years of marriage escalated to him punching me in the face. After I got out of the hospital - I left. I got two great boys out of the relationship so it's ok.<br /><br />Now I'm married to a man 8 yrs younger. I was 29 with 2 kids and he had turned 21 6 weeks before we met. We were married 9 yrs this last October and just added 5 month old princess to our family this last spring. It took me 8 yrs to trust him enough to bring another child into this world. Ladies - I definately recommend checking out the younger ones (you can train them, just kidding).<br /><br />BTW - this is hester, I couldn't logonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299329.post-1102015730574545742004-12-02T13:28:00.000-06:002004-12-02T13:28:00.000-06:00You know, they all start out that way. The emotio...You know, they all start out that way. The emotional abuse just sort of sneaks up on you. Good for you for dumping him early! I, unfortunately, married mine (though things didn't go south until we got married) - but I got two great kids out of the deal. And it really made me appreciate my Hubby now.<br /><br />Sorry for the annonymous comment - Blogger won't let me log in when I came in from BE!<br /><br />Catt<br />http://cativa.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299329.post-1102003741401217172004-12-02T10:09:00.000-06:002004-12-02T10:09:00.000-06:00Sadly, none of my relationships with younger men w...Sadly, none of my relationships with younger men went well either. I finally began to refuse to date any guy that wasn't at least 2-3 years older than me. My husband is actually almost 9 years older than me and I still feel like I have 3 children instead of 2. I can't imagine what it would be like to be married to a younger man, although I'm sure there are some very lovely younger men out there.<br /><br />Kj, this boyfriend sounds a lot like my ex-brother-in-law, right down to the age and the drinking problem that he apparently hid from everyone for quite some time. He was also a chef. Fortunately my sil came to her senses after about 3 years and kicked the jerk out.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09708268232861348307noreply@blogger.com